"Yeah I know you're not a kid, Finn," Poe said, the statement taking a little bot of the wind out of his sails. "Look, just - trust me. It can be really good, and it can really not be. You don't need to be a kid to not have it go well." There was something in his voice that was almost a warning, and something probably better left unsaid.

Poe never really talked about his history, but he had one.

"I trust you with my life, Finn. You know that."